Thursday, June 12, 2008….I’m learning a new word!

June 12th, 2008

When I was in elementary and middle school I wasn’t very popular.  It was my fault because I really didn’t know how to just relax and be myself.  So I ended up closing up and spending a lot of time alone, secretly wishing I could be with other people.  By the time I reached high school I started coming out of my shell and making friends seemed easy.  All those years being the “quiet kid in the corner” suddenly exploded by the time I reached college and I was a social butterfly.  My goal was to be involved in as much as possible; I loved it and had the energy to maintain a huge social schedule.  I remember my mom saying to me more than once, “Slow down and smell the roses.  You do way to much.”  I knew with my entire being that she was crazy.  I would never want to slow down.  I wasn’t like her; so I thought.

As an adult (okay, I don’t really feel like one but according to everything I’ve heard I am now officially one)  I still have the feeling that I want to be involved in as much as possible, but I don’t have the energy. And lately all I want to do is go home after work and just relax inside my house, often times alone.  If you would have asked me five years ago if I would ever think I would want to be home alone, not around my friends, not being involved in something, I would have said you are nuts!

The past five years I’ve been learning the word NO.  It’s a hard word to learn because often times I get myself involved in things that I just don’t have the energy to do.  But I don’t want to disappoint anyone.  I’m learning though, that the only one I disappoint is myself.  So I’m taking it day by day.  I still want to do everything…. but for today I’m saying NO!

TODAY I’M GRATEFUL FOR summer.  I LOVE this weather!  It makes me smile.

TODAY I’M ATTRACTING more time to “smell the roses.”

 

TODAY’S QUOTE: Successful people say “YES” to their dreams and “NO” to distractions.

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  • 1. Sylvia  |  June 12th, 2008 at 12:27 pm

    Very insightful Bob, good for you. We both know it’s important to stay focused on what’s working in our lives…..Each day, each moment, stay as positive as possible and get rid of any negatives…thats what makes life so great!

    Thanks for the nice thoughts!

    Sylvia

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